Philippians 1:9-10
And this is my prayer: That your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless until the Day of Christ.
Love abounding in knowledge and depth of insight would not be critical of all the imperfections that knowledge and insight would reveal, but would discern the best, righteous and holy path to take (words to say), in order to not sully what purity we've attained or be open to blame for the wrong or criticism we did not succumb to. That would be real love. Find the positive to agree with to encourage the other.
Even so, come, Lord Jesus!
